[way2fast4u]

i dont want to start drama on the board but i got a serious question...my girlfriend of a year and a half is moving from bismarck north dakota to minnesota to go to college. she wants me to go but i dont know if i want too im 18 so i should go and do something crazy since im young but is it worth moving from my family? i really love this girl but what should i do? :shame:

 

[Geebi]

Well all the advise I can give you is follow your heart. Do what you think is right. If it don't work out move back home.

 

[FFighter_21]

How far from home is it? Could you commute every two weeks or so (stay there but come home every two weeks) or vice vresa?
If so you could give it a dry run and see how it goes....but he's right. Follow your heart and see what happens. Ya never know. But, if you don't wanna go, don't and if she really loves you too, she should understand.
Good luck and keep us posted.

 

[way2fast4u]

its about a 6 hour drive....

 

[JoKeR]

i would have to say the heart knows what it wants. my question is besides your family, is there anything else that is holding you back? you are balanced on a double edge sword right now. you have on the one hand that you dont want to let her go off with out you but at the same time you dont want to leave your family. the thing is that if you dont go you will live with the fact that "you never know what would have happened". your family is your family and will forever be your family, if you dont go you will always have the "what if". trust me from learning from my own mistakes you dont want the "what if". worse case senario you can always come back to your family and no harm no foul.

 

[kimsdad]

Dude this is your big opportunity you have been waiting for. Since it will be easier for you to hide what you have been doing, you can now stay home with the sheep you have been seeing next door and just go visit your girlfriend on the weekends. No need for you to sneak around anymore in fear she will find out. If she still loves you after she graduates, then you can break it off with the sheep and goat unless of course you have "kids" That may be hard to explain. Good luck dude.

 

[smoke14fan]

i say go for it.if it doesn't work out move back-you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.i left with rob from florida and moved to washington state on a whim.we lost contact for months and reconnected a few weeks before his move and he asked me to go with him.put my stuff in storage,packed the car,left and never looked back.fast forward 4 years later-we are engaged and just bought our first house.best thing i ever did

 

[Sall7987]

my advice to you dude is go live at college, i commute, and honestly you miss a lot even if you live close enough to the school, you will make way more friends and have a better time than being home. just my opinion. if i had the money i would have stayed at college my 1st 2 years, but i dont, but am saving up so i can spend my senior year there. i know its gonna be great because i stayed a few nights in a friends room. lots of fun, dont miss this once in a life opportunity.

 

[Mearsfan07]

I would say if you really love this girl try it out, and your 18 so your old enough to make right decisions, plus 6 hours away isn't so bad so you could make a trip back home here and there. I would advise try it out, and if your uncomfortable then mabe go on back. Follow the heart man

 

[harley2001]

Follow your heart. You need to do whats in your heart. Good luck!